Author: luvemycrazy
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Grief: The Unexpected Feelings That Surface After Healing
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When my husband died by suicide in 2009, my world stopped. I didn’t expect the unexpected grief emotions that would surface years later — after therapy, after the tears slowed, after the fog lifted. One of the most unexpected emotions? Disgust. Not at the person I lost, not at the…
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Finding Gratitude Through Grief When Joy Feels Impossible
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Gratitude feels easy when life is light — when everything is falling into place and blessings seem obvious. But when grief enters the picture, gratitude can feel like a language we no longer speak. How do you thank God or the universe for anything when your heart feels broken beyond…
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Joy Comes In The Morning-Finding Gratitude Through Grief And The Holidays
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During the Holidays The holidays are a time we’re reminded to be thankful — but for many, they also bring a quiet ache. This season can highlight loss — whether through death, separation, distance, or broken relationships. Empty chairs, quiet traditions, or missing laughter can make the days feel longer…
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When God Removes People From Your Life
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There are moments in life when the truth doesn’t come through words — it comes through heartbreak. I’ve come to realize something that I think many of us who love deeply eventually face: sometimes, what you want isn’t what God wants for you. There was a time in my life when I held…
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Challenges Between Father And Sons
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The relationship between fathers and sons has long been filled with both deep bonds and difficult challenges. At its core, the struggle often stems from generational differences, contrasting perspectives, and unspoken expectations. Fathers, shaped by their own upbringing and experiences, may envision a particular path for their sons—one that aligns…
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Silent Struggles: What We Couldn’t Say
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As a Gen Xer, I often find myself in conversations with other parents and friends, who are shocked that kids today—sometimes as young as 10 or 12—are openly talking about suicide. The idea feels outlandish, almost unfathomable. When we were that age, it was unheard of. And if that’s how…
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Mental Health and the Brain
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Your Brain Can Recover Have you ever stopped to wonder how the different parts of your brain influence your mental health? One area of the brain that has captured my attention is the hippocampus. This small but powerful structure plays a major role in memory, learning, and emotional regulation. When…
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Joy Comes in the Morning: Finding Hope and Healing During the Holidays
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During the holidays, emotions tend to rise to the surface. For many, this season brings warmth, celebration, and connection. But for others, it magnifies grief. The holidays have a way of highlighting what—or who—is missing. Whether the loss came through death, separation, estrangement, or distance created by broken relationships, the…
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Honoring Our Veterans: Meaningful Ways to Support and Remember Their Service
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Never forgotten On Veterans Day, we pause to honor the incredible men and women who have served our country with courage and dedication.Whether they served recently or decades ago, and whether their time in the military was spent in the heat of battle or behind the scenes, each veteran has,…
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Family Without the Strings: Finding Balance and Boundaries
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Family is everything It’s something many of us grew up hearing, believing, and even holding onto tightly. But as life unfolds, we begin to realize that relationships—whether by blood or by choice—aren’t always simple. And sometimes… they aren’t always healthy. Family isn’t limited to DNA. The people who truly feel…